Thursday, December 11, 2008
Latino Homosexuality
The idea that a man's homosexuality in itself is not a defining character in Latin America is unimaginable here. Instead, Latino males are judged on their power rather than their sexuality. As the readings put it, there is more of an emphasis on object aim (what you want to do with your sexual object of desire) rather than your object choice (what you want to do said acts with). This is extremely different from here, where people don't really care what a homosexual man does with another man; more important is that he bares the title of "homosexual."
Although this seems a little less judgmental than the way we view homosexuals here, in fact it may be just as judgmental or more. The reading talks about how the idea of "machismo" plays a huge role in Latino culture. Rather than ostracizing homosexual men like American culture, Latino culture generally looks down effeminate, or "passive" men.
The roots of these cultural and societal beliefs are very interesting. Even though America shares such geographical proximity to Mexico, their cultural views on homosexuality differ so greatly. Therefore, I would not be surprised to find a migration of people from America to Mexico, or vice versa, to fit into a society whose views they find themselves more comfortable with.
post 4 Disney
I never realized until we watched that movie in class just how sexist Disney movies are. Shows like Americas next top and others of the sort have always bothered me because of the role they present for women. My girlfriends all follow that show and revere the characters. They love it- like an addiction. Personally I don’t understand how people can watch the crap and I say this all the time. I feel like people should be offended by shows that like that tell girls that people skinny and pretty having a good smile is something worth devoting their life to. Disney movies I feel promote these values from an early age. They tell girls that need to be beautiful and accommodating for people to like them. The girls in Disney films are often powerless, needing to be saved by the hero of the story. Usually they are easily won over and treated somewhat as a prize.
Post 3 (playing with fire)
I found myself a little confused while reading this interview. I understood that Maria found the need to justify her feelings of attraction towards other women in the context her family, religious and cultural values, but I don’t agree with her perception of the male. In the interview she says she took on the role of the aggressor and told her first girlfriend not to look at other boys. She then goes on to essentially say that she always kept multiple girls on lock. In some ways I can see how this is taking on the role of a male, but in other ways I think this demonstrates a distorted and unfriendly view towards men by Maria. She brags during the interview that most other men would be jealous of her because she’d taken the virginity (vaginal penetration) of 7 girls without having to marry them. This part especially confused because I don’t think this is a natural impulse of men – to take virginity. I was actually a little bothered that someone would have this impulse and I wondered after that comment if Maria justifies all her actions by calling them male. I wish the interviewer had brought up this idea more: the jaux de postion between Maria’s perception of males and typical actions of males.
Monday, December 8, 2008
Final Reflection Post
I feel like this issue specifically approaches the events that happened during the Holocaust. In concentration camps, the Nazis would perform experimental medical procedures on Jewish people. They believed the Jewish race was not worthy of being in their society and thus used them in these experiments. Although sterilization is not as severe as what the Nazis did, it is on its way there if we let it continue. This is also an example of the subtle discrimination that it characteristic of our country. It was found that most of the sterilizations occurred to Latina women that were asked for consent right before or after labor, when they were not thinking clearly. They were also told that they would be cut off from welfare if they did not undergo this procedure. This type of discrimination, if we let it go too far, can evolve into a repetition of history. To me, it is unbelievable that these types of things still exist even though we have seen the consequences.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Reflection #3
Reflection of A Day Without a Mexican
reflection #3
Reflection 3: Prof La Fountain-Strokes Lecture
The lecture by La fountain-strokes was a great lecture. I think that many people assume that because I am Latina I should know a lot about my culture, but in all honesty I don’t. The professor said many concepts and terms that were used in by different Latino communities that I had never heard of. What is interesting, is that in Mexico, or in my family, a pato is someone that talks a lot, however, in Puerto Rico, pato is what they call homosexuals. Marica, is a term that we use in Mexico, to call homosexuals, but there is a work that is similar to that, which my mom use to use to refer to me. I was raised with three boys, and all of their friends, so I was somewhat of a tomboy. My mom used to call me a Marimacha, if you break that word up I is Maria and Macho and they make Marimacha. There are many derogatory terms used, but I know that sometimes people don’t always use them as bad terms but sometimes they are said in a joking manner, however, I don’t think the queer community accepts these because they are referring to them.
I have a gay cousin in Mexico and many people in our family, especially those in Mexico constantly tease him behind hid back. I do not want to make a general statement that applies to all Mexicans, but in my family, it is very hard to accept my cousin. I think that is because they are very close-minded and because they don’t know what it feels like to have homogeneous emotions. I think it is even harder for his father to accept him because my uncle is a machista, which is a term that Dr. La Fountain-Strokes mentioned to us as well.
Reflection 2: On Prop 187 film
I want to reflect on this film for two reasons. One of the reasons is because I attended a bilingual school for 9 years. My grammar school started in a Mexican neighborhood in Chicago, it was only a pre-k program for Spanish speaking children. It expanded to third grade in the same facility, which was in a church. After about 7 years, it moved to down town Chicago. Because it moved it expanded all through sixth grade and eventually 8th grade. My three brothers and I attended this school, but now that my brother is older he constantly tells my mom that sending us to a bilingual school was a terrible decision. I am in Education 118 “Teaching in a Multicultural Society” with Professor Moje, where I am doing my final essay/project on bilingual teaching and learning.
I do think bilingual education is important for those students who need it, but I never needed it, therefore, I want to find if other students like me, were better off not attending a bilingual school.